Tuesday, May 19, 2009

Why Worry?

Why Worry?

There are only two things in life to worry about:
Whether you are well or whether you are sick.

If you are well, then there is nothing to worry about .
But if you are sick, there are only two things to worry about:
Whether you are going to get well or whether you are going to die.

If you get well, then there is nothing to worry about.
But if you die, there are only two things to worry about:
Whether you are going to go to heaven or whether you are going to go to hell.

If you go to heaven, then you have nothing to worry about.
But if you go to hell, you'll be so busy shaking hands with all your friends,that you won't have time to worry!

So, Why Worry?

((:Be Happy!! :))

The Art Of Marriage

The Art Of Marriage



A good marriage must be created.

In Marriage the little things are the big things…..

It is never being too old to hold hands.

It is remembering to say “ I Love you” at least once a day.

It is never going to sleep angry.

It is having a mutual sense of values and common objectives.

It is standing together facing the world.

It is speaking words of appreciation and demonstrating gratitude in thoughtful ways.

It is having the capacity to forgive and forget.

It is giving each other an atmosphere in which each can grow.

It is not only marrying the right person, It is being the right partner.

11 Lessons In Life


11 Lessons In Life :))



1.

It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return, But what is more painful is to love someone and never find the courage to let that person know how you feel.

2.

A sad thing in life is when you meet someone who means a lot to you, only to find out in the end that it was never meant to be and you just have to let go.

3.

The best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a porch swing with, never say a word, and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you've ever had.

4.

It's true that we don't know what we've got until we lose it, but it's also true that we don't know what we've been missing until it arrives.

5.

It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone-but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.

6.

Don't go for looks; they can deceive. Don't go for wealth; even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright.

7.

Dream what you want to dream; go where you want to go; be what you want to be, because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you want to do.

8.

Always put yourself in the other's shoes. If you feel that it hurts you, it probably hurts the person too.

9.

A careless word may kindle strife; a cruel word may wreck a life; a timely word may level stress; a loving word may heal and bless.

10.

The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything they just make the best of everything that comes along their way.

11.

Love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss, ends with a tear.


When you were born, you were crying and everyone around you
were smiling.
Live your life so that when you die, you're the one
smiling and everyone around you is crying.

$100 Bill

$100 Bill
A well-known speaker started off his seminar by holding up a $100 bill.
In the room of 200, he asked, "Who would like this $100 bill?"
Hands started going up.
He said, "I am going to give this $100 to one of you...but first, let me do this."He proceeded to crumple the $100 dollar bill up.
He then asked, "Who still wants it?"
Still the hands were up in the air.
Well, he replied, "What if I do this?"And he dropped it on the ground and started to grind it into the floor with his shoe.
He picked it up, now crumpled and dirty.
"Now, who still wants it?"Still the hands went into the air.
He continued:
"My friends, we have all learned a very valuable lesson.No matter what I did to the money, you still wanted it because it did notdecrease in value. It was and still is worth $100.
Many times in our lives, we are dropped, crumpled, and groundinto the dirt by the decisions we make and the circumstancesthat come our way. We feel as though we are worthless.
But no matter what has happened or what will happen, you willnever lose your value. Dirty or clean, crumpled or finely creased,you are still priceless to those who DO LOVE you.
The worth of our lives comes not in what we do or who we know,but by WHO WE ARE.
You are special - Don't EVER forget it."

A POSITIVE THOUGHT


A POSITIVE THOUGHT


If God had a refrigerator, your picture would be on it.

If He had a wallet, your photo would be in it.

He sends you flowers every spring, and a sunrise every morning.

Whenever you want to talk, He'll listen.

He could live anywhere in the universe, and He chose your heart.

What about the Christmas gift He sent you in Bethlehem; not to mention that Friday at Calvary.

Face it, He's crazy about you.


WE are mighty special....and we should remember . . .

God answers Knee-Mail! :)


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The 7 Ups

The 7 Ups



1. Wake Up!!
Decide to have a good day."This is the day the Lord hath made;let us rejoice and be glad in it."

2. Dress Up!!
The best way to dress up is to put on a smile."The Lord does not look at the things man looks at.Man looks at outward appearance,but the Lord looks at the heart."

3. Shut Up!!
Say nice things and learn to listen.God gave us two ears and one mouth,so He must have meant for us to do twice as much listening as talking.

4. Stand Up!!
For what you believe in.Stand for something or you will fall for anything. "Let us not be weary in doing good; for at the proper time,we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.Therefore, as we have opportunity, let us do good..."

5. Look Up!!
To the Lord. "I can do everything through Christ who strengthens me".

6. Reach Up!!
For something higher. "Trust in the Lord with all your heart,and lean not unto your own understanding." In all your ways, acknowledge Him, and He will direct your path
7. Lift Up!!
You’re Prayers. "Do not worry about anything; instead PRAY ABOUT EVERYTHING."
FOLLOW YOUR BLISS

Author Joseph Campbell often talked about "following your bliss." I heard of a bus driver in Chicago who does just that. He sings while he drives. That's right... sings! And I don't mean he sings softly to himself, either. He sings so that the whole bus can hear! All day long he drives and sings.


He was once interviewed on Chicago television. He said that he is not actually a bus driver. "I'm a professional singer," he asserted. "I only drive the bus to get a captive audience every single day.


His "bliss" is not driving a bus, though that may be a source of enjoyment for some people. His bliss is singing. And the supervisors at the Chicago Transit Authority are perfectly happy about the whole arrangement. You see, people line up to ride his bus. They even let other buses pass by so they can ride with the "singing bus driver." They love it!


Here is a man who believes he knows why he was put here on earth. For him, it is to make people happy. And the more he sings, the more people he makes happy! He has found a way to align his purpose in living with his occupation. By following his bliss, he is actually living the kind of life he believes he was meant to live.


Not everybody can identify a purpose in life. But when you do, and when you pursue it, you will be living the kind of life you feel you were meant to live. And what's more, you will be happy.

Monday, May 18, 2009

5 bad food habits office-goers must change

If you, like so many of us, are so caught up with work that you have little time to watch what you eat, it's time to take a breather before your lifestyle takes its toll on your health.

Here are five bad habits which you must avoid to salvage your health.

1. Skipping breakfast

A lot of people leave home with just a cup of tea or coffee and then they wonder why they are always crabby, irritable and low on energy throughout the day.

Skipping this first, most important meal of the day is like starting a car without fuel. Your body is forced to call on its energy reserves and these do not last very long, making you irritable and snappy and lacking in concentration by the middle of the day.

What's more, you will end up eating a lot more servings or calorie-dense foods at lunch, which will cause your sugar levels to go up and then come crashing down, making you feel sluggish and tired.

Solution : A good breakfast does not have to be elaborate; a glass of skimmed milk with 2 handfuls of corn or wheat flakes and a fruit will suffice. For hot breakfast lovers, an egg, two slices of bread and a fruit or a bowl of oatmeal porridge accompanied by a fruit are enough.

2. Drinking too much tea/coffee

Sipping constantly can be a tough habit to break. But too much of either tea or coffee can do two things:

  • It may leave you feeling jittery, irritable, dehydrated, and even interrupt your sleep pattern at night so you do not get deep sleep or do not feel rested the next day.
  • If taken with your meals, tea and coffee inhibit the absorption of iron from your food. Your body throws out the nutrient as waste.
Solution : If you cannot cut down on the number of cups, cut down on the size of cups so you drink half the quantity. If you have a choice, opt for water.

3. Not drinking enough water

Most corporate offices are air-conditioned, so we do not really sweat and therefore, do not feel so thirsty. What's more when you are used to drinking water below your requirement, your body adapts and when you do start drinking a little more water, your body treats it as excess -- in fact, initially, the body actually throws it out causing you to run to the toilet every few minutes.

In the long run, not drinking enough water can cause constipation, indigestion, gas, increased hunger pangs, dehydration and can make your skin look dull too.

Solution : Keep a 1 litre bottle of water at your table and aim to finish it before the end of the day. It may take you two to three days to adapt to an increased dose but when you do, you will notice the positive benefits immediately -- better skin, better bowel movements and better control on your hunger pangs.

4. Eating at odd hours

While you cannot be expected to leave in the middle of a meeting because the clock says lunch time, it is definitely possible to try to have a somewhat regular meal timing for the majority of the days in the week.

Having a somewhat fixed meal time helps keep your metabolic rate up and can help prevent gas and acidity, which result from long gaps between meals.

Timely eating will also prevent you from overeating as once your body is used to getting energy at a particular hour, it will stop demanding food at odd hours.

Solution : Try to have a fixed time-frame in which you can have your meal peacefully and finish it in a matter of 15 to 20 minutes.

5. Weekend binging

Most of us put in endless hours during the week eating whatever is available, and then comes the weekend. We go on another binge that we feel we deserve. Hard drinks along with food add to the damage we cause to our health in the long run.

Solution : Try to take some time to relax at the end of each day and don't wait for the weekend to unwind. Take a relaxing massage, watch a movie or a play or read a good book. Eating is not the only way to pamper yourself!

-- The author is a certified personal trainer and nutritionist. She runs Size Wise, a training studio, and also conducts fitness workshops. Besides training with the International Sports Science Association, USA, she has a PG Diploma in nutrition and food technology and writes for a number of publications.

Monday, May 4, 2009

बहरों की बस्‍ती में इक जुबान रखते हो

।। एक।।
सब कहते हैं गजब की जान रखते हो
बहरों की बस्‍ती में इक जुबान रखते हो

धीमे स्‍वर में कहूं या तेज आवाज़ में
सबको पता है तुम क्‍या स्‍थान रखते हो

जो खताएं हों तुम्‍हारी तो हज़ारों माफ
हमारी एक पे, सर आसमान रखते हो

मुदृदत से दबे कुचले हुए थे हम यहां
उठे, तो पूछते हैं क्‍यों तूफान रखते हो

तुम्‍हारा वजूद है, हमारे खून से,पसीने से
जान पड़ता नहीं, हमारा ध्‍यान रखते हो

सहने के दिन गए, न धीरज रखा जाएगा
सम्‍हालो तिजोरी, जहां अपने प्रान रखते हो

अभिव्‍यक्ति की कलम में सच्‍चाई की मार है
पता है कि तुम तलवार-ए-म्‍यान रखते हो

उत्‍साही है जमाने में,याद जमाने को रहेगा
लाख बरबादी के क्‍यों न अरमान रखते हो

*राजेश उत्‍साही

Sunday, May 3, 2009

Life Is Too Short To Waste Time Hating Anyone


A story tells that two friends

were walking

through the desert

During some point of the

Journey they had an

Argument, and one friend

Slapped the other one

In the face.

The one who got slapped

was hurt, but without

saying anything,

wrote in the sand:


TODAY MY BEST FRIEND

SLAPPED ME IN THE FACE
.

They kept on walking

until they found an oasis,

where they decided

to take a bath.

The one who had been

slapped got stuck in the

mire and started drowning,

but the friend saved him.

After he recovered from

the near drowning,

he wrote on a stone:


TODAY MY BEST FRIEND

SAVED MY LIFE.


The friend who had slapped

and saved his best friend

asked him, "After I hurt you,

you wrote in the sand and now,

you write on a stone, why?"

The other friend replied

"When someone hurts us

we should write it down

in sand where winds of

forgiveness can erase it away.

But, when someone does

something good for us,

we must engrave it in stone

where no wind

can ever erase it."


LEARN TO WRITE

YOUR HURTS IN

THE SAND AND TO

CARVE YOUR

BENEFITS IN STONE!!!


They say it takes a

minute to find a special

person, an hour to

appreciate them, a day

to love them, but then

an entire life

to forget them.


Take the time to live!


Do not value the THINGS

you have in your life. But value

WHO you have in your life!

"
Happiness is not something you find, it's something you create…"